What Is Tease And Denial?
Each and every day, your husband is being unfaithful to you – usually by masturbating while thinking of another woman or looking at porn. Every time he does so, he is using up part of his libido that should properly be directed at his loving wife. Beyond that, most men cannot resist temptation and if some hussy makes a move on him, he may be unable to resist.
The only way to protect against these very real dangers to your marriage is to make it impossible for him to masturbate or cheat on you in any other way. This is accomplished by locking him up with a male chastity device, and hiding the key or keeping it on you at all times.
When done correctly, this will not only make it impossible for him to get an erection or ejaculate without your permission; it will also turn him into a better husband! He’ll be more likely to help out around the house, he won’t want to waste time with his friends and he will become more romantic.
Of course, this doesn’t happen simply by locking him up. You have to also take action to train him. This process is often called “tease and denial” and it works on a very simple principle. You see, when a man is very sexually excited he is naturally programmed to do anything he can to achieve orgasm and ejaculation.
This means you can get him to make the responsible choices every woman wants her man to make, instead of the childish ones men tend to make on their own, as long as you are using tease and denial.
So, how do you do this? The first thing you need to do is wait until he is locked up, and then become as sexy as possible. Rub your breasts by his shoulders when you pass him in the hall. Walk around the house wearing sexy underwear. Kiss him deeply often.
Ask him to go down on you and tell him that if your orgasm is satisfactory in intensity, you might let him out of his male chastity belt. All of these things will keep him in a constant state of arousal that he can do nothing about.
When he’s in this state, every part of his psychology will tell him to do what you want him to do if it even gives him a small chance at sexual release. So, you can ask him to do the dishes, mow the lawn or take you out to a nice dinner – and he’ll eagerly agree!
Of course, there is a reason this is called ‘tease and denial” and not simply teasing. The vast majority of the time that he does things for you, you need to say “no” when he asks for release. Tell him it just wasn’t quite good enough – but that you are sure he will do better next time.
You do need to release him every so often – just enough so he always knows there is a chance that this time, he might not have to face the denial afterwards.
Most wives start out by only denying for a couple days at a time while they are teasing him. Then they work it up to longer and longer periods of time as part of his ongoing training. Of course, the tease and denial tasks he will be given will also become more difficult to accomplish over time.
I’ve found that the end goal of tease and denial should be to allow him to get his “little reward” every six weeks or so. With my partner, I make sure he ends up with less than 10 orgasms a year, though I have friends who are indulgent and allow them men up to 14 a year.
You’ll figure out what level of tease and denial works best for your wonderful male chastity belt relationship with a bit practice and experimentation.
