Male Chastity Punishment

Welcome back to Mistress Sarah’s wonderful world of male chastity! In most of these articles, I’ve spent time talking about the benefits of male chastity. But, I should tell you that it’s not all fun and games. In fact, there can be no benefit to male chastity without punishment.

That’s why this edition will be dedicated to the basics of male chastity punishment. Don’t be scared. Remember, men are happiest when they are submitting to the woman they love. They are at their most miserable when they have freedom. But they live in denial and will try to get that freedom, even though they know deep down inside that they were born to submit.

You need to instill male chastity punishment as a way to correct this behavior and guide them to the incredible bliss that a man can only achieve when he has completely given up his sexuality to his partner.

The first question you will probably ask is, what exactly is male chastity punishment? At its most basic level, it is correcting your husband when he misbehaves in chastity. The easiest and most common male chastity punishment is to simply extend his chastity for extra days or weeks for each infraction. Because he will be desperate for release, this will work fairly well.

If he has been particularly bad, a more harsh form of male chastity punishment is the “ruined orgasm.” For this you need your key and a bowl of ice. Take him out of his cage and start masturbating him. Then, when he is very close to orgasm, take the ice and apply it to his cock. Then, lock him up again. He’ll have gotten close to orgasm but missed his chance. His frustration level will go sky high!

The ultimate form of male chastity punishment – and one that should only be used when there are serious infractions – is to show him exactly what he is missing. Find an ex-boyfriend or another man you want to make love with and bring him home; make your husband watch him penetrate you while he remains helplessly locked up. If you do this, it may be weeks before he misbehaves again!

Your next question will be: When do I institute male chastity punishment? This one is tricky, because, face it: Men are only human, and very weak creatures. There will probably be – especially at the start – many things he does every day that annoy you. You can’t waste time punishing him for every little disappointment.

But there are some things that always need to be punished, so let’s go over the basics:

  • If he asks to be let out of his cage early. He shouldn’t be asking at all! That’s up to you! If you let him whine once, he’ll whine forever. Each time he complains, you should add at least one more day to his chastity.
  • If you catch him looking at porn. This cannot be tolerated at all. If you catch him once, add at least a week onto his confinement as part of his male chastity punishment.
  • If a specific chore is not done and he does not have a valid excuse. Again, if you let him get away with this once, he’ll never be a good boy. This should add a week of chastity onto his schedule.
  • If he tries, but fails, to give you an orgasm with his mouth and fingers. He needs to learn how to please you without his cock. Any day he can’t is an extra day he should be kept in chastity.
  • If you discover any attempt on his part to escape from the device. This is a big sin, and is one of the times I highly recommend giving him a ruined orgasm.

There it is – the basics of male chastity punishment! To learn more, please consider ordering my book, Beautiful Enslavement. It’s quite simply the right thing to do if you are serious about your relationship.