Male Chastity Punishment
Many people understand the basics of male chastity, which is why male chastity devices are among the most popular sex toys sold in America today. From a simple point of view, male chastity involves putting him in a device that makes it impossible for him to have an erection or ejaculate until you unlock him.
This frees him from the temptation to masturbate, or waste time with online porn like a teenage boy. It also encourages him to do things to please you both in and out of the bedroom, so he will be able to earn his release. Remember, a man’s primary desire is to achieve orgasm. This is more important than food – so he will be willing to do anything for you, as soon as you get him under lock and key.
But, there is much more to the male chastity lifestyle than simply locking him up and throwing away the key. You need to tease him. You need to make him feel loved. And sometimes, when a man is in male chastity, you will need to punish him.
Male chastity is a training exercise that you are doing for his own good. Think of him as a child – he needs rewards when he’s been a good boy, and punishment when he’s been naughty. Over time, this will allow him to learn not to be naughty and to become the best husband possible.
In short, you can’t have the carrot without the stick! Which brings up the question of, what punishments are appropriate for a bad boy who is in male chastity? The truth is that the answer will depend on the couple and the severity of the infraction. But, here are the punishments I generally give my husband for various infractions:
- If he asks to be let out of male chastity or complains about male chastity. In this case I simply add another week in the device for every complaint or request that he makes. This shuts him up.
- If you find evidence that he has tried to tamper with or escape the device. This is a more serious infraction. In this case I add a full month to his chastity and spank his ass with my hairbrush 10 times.
- If you catch him looking at porn. This cannot be tolerated at all. For this I get a bowl of ice, and then I unlock him from his chastity device. I provide him manual stimulation until he is just about to orgasm. At that point I put ice on his penis and lock him back up. Ruining his potential orgasm this way is a lesson he will not soon forget.
- If you catch him flirting with another woman either online or in real life. Obviously this is a big no-no. In my opinion, a woman has two choices here depending on how dominant she feels. If you are a dominant woman you can unlock him, stimulate him and then pour hot candle wax on his penis. If you are less dominant you can simply tell him he has earned a full six months in chastity. If you are very, very dominant you can make him choose between the two punishments.
- If you catch him having cyber sex. Since he can’t have real sex, this is the closest thing to cheating he can do. There is only one acceptable punishment – a full year without a single orgasm.
