Professsional Male Chastity Mistress
Hello. This is Mistress Sarah again, ready, willing and able to tell you about all of the basics related to male chastity relationships. If you’ve poked around the web at all looking for information about male chastity, then you’ve certainly come across the term “Male Chastity Mistress” and wondered exactly what it means.
The answer is simple: Many men realize they need to be in chastity, but are not in a relationship. Yet, they know they don’t have the self-control to keep themselves in line, and understand that they need a stern, yet loving, woman’s guidance. Good for them!
In this case, they hire a professional male chastity mistress who manages their orgasms for them. This can take many forms, but the most common is a “long distance key holder.”
What happens in this situation is that the man contracts with the male chastity mistress to be his guide through his new and improved life. After they have reached an agreement, he locks himself up and mails her the keys.
The two parties then keep in regular contact – usually online, but sometimes over the phone – and she gives him a series of tasks to do and monitors his progress. Usually she will require some evidence, such as a web cam picture that he has done what he has been told to do. This is because when it comes to their little pee-pees, men can never be trusted.
Then, when she has decided that he has done enough to earn his release, she will mail the key back to him so he can unlock himself. The day after he receives the key, he is required to mail it back to her or else their relationship will be terminated and she will add a very large additional charge onto his credit card.
Of course, this is only the most common way a male chastity mistress relationship works. He may be able to find a local dominatrix who will hold his keys for him and provide him with tasks and punishments. I remember I once had a chastity slave who displeased me because he did not do all the tasks I required. So, I simply mailed the keys to his ex girlfriend – so that he would have to explain to her that he was locked up and beg her to give him the keys. That little worm never disobeyed me again!
There are also Financial Domination Chastity Mistresses. These women will require the man to send them certain amounts of money over a period of time in order for him to get the keys back. Generally they will require more and more money over time and make him do more and more humiliating acts. This is not something for the meek or poor to experiment with. She may be willing to bankrupt you – and you may be willing to be bankrupted – in order to get your freedom.
Finally, there are Phone Chastity Mistresses. This is all just fun and games and is no way as serious as any other form of chastity play. Personally, I think it’s for wimps and losers, but they have the right to do what they want. In this situation a man calls up the mistress on the phone and for a fee pretends to be in a chastity belt. Then, she tells him that he needs to stay locked up and he begs for release. After a certain period of time she “gives in” and tells him he can “take off the belt” and have his freedom. In general, the man has never been locked up at all and is simply playing with himself while talking to her (and paying up to $10 a minute!). I consider this the opposite of chastity and do not recommend it to anyone.
