Basic Male Chastity Guide
Hello again! This is Mistress Sarah, and I remain your faithful guide through the world of male chastity. If you are reading this you are either a superbly submissive man who wants to bring up the idea of male chastity to his wife, or you are a delightfully dominant woman who has realized her man needs training.
Either way, you desire information on the wonderful world of male chastity and how it can be incorporated into your relationship. I understand. Every day, I get emails asking me about male chastity.
For a perfect understanding of the lifestyle, I recommend my guide, Beautiful Enslavement. It has everything you ever wanted to know about male chastity but were afraid to ask! But, I understand that some of you are not ready for that much information.
You may simply be curious about exploring your fantasies. Or, your partner may have mentioned the idea of male chastity; and you want to know a few of the ground rules before you decide if it is right for you
That’s fine – and it is the reason why I’m willing to let you in on some of the basic lessons of male chastity. Therefore, today I’m going to provide you with a basic male chastity guide that should answer some of your questions.
Q. Why would I want to lock up my husband’s penis?
A. Quite simply, because men can’t control themselves. He is masturbating much more than you think, and he really should be saving up that passion for you. Once you control his ability to orgasm, all of his sexual energy will be directed at you. It will be like you are dating again! Plus, shouldn’t he act like a man and make love to his wife, rather than play with his pee-pee like a little boy?
Q. How long should I keep him locked up?
A. That’s entirely up to you! Most couples start out locking him up for two or three days at a time and then build up to a week or more. Obviously, any time you want to make use of his penis, you can let him out – as long as that’s your decision and not his!
Q. Won’t I miss out on sex if he’s locked up?
A. No. Not at all. You’ll probably end up having more orgasms with him than ever before. You’d be amazed at how skilled he becomes at oral sex if he realizes that he needs to make you cum before he can have his fun. Plus, you are in control and can unlock him whenever you like. Finally, you can get attachments that are exact replicas of his penis to put on the belt so that you can feel the sensations of his penetration, without letting him out of his cage.
Q. Could chastity hurt my husband?
A. Not really. Men do need to ejaculate every so often for their prostrate health, but there are ways to make this happen without releasing him from chastity or giving him an orgasm. I discuss those methods in my book. If you don’t keep his tube or cage clean, there is some risk of infection – but you can easily ice him down and bathe his penis every week or two to avoid this risk. Also, some male chastity belts have small holes that allow him to clean his penis without releasing it.
Q. Could male chastity hurt my marriage?
A. Absolutely not! If anything, it will bring love and romance back to your relationship! He’ll start buying you flowers and taking you out to dinner again. He’ll stop hanging out with the boys and spend all his time with you. He’ll take over lots of your chores around the house. He’ll hug and kiss you more than he has in years. And, best of all, he’ll do everything in his power to keep you constantly sexually satisfied! What could be better than that?
Q. What do I do if I put him in chastity and then he begs to get out?
A. Ignore him. Men can be wimps sometimes; but with training they will get used to it. Lots of men ask for chastity and then after an hour or two decide it’s too frustrating. This is not your problem. Once he’s agreed to be locked up, make him stick to his agreement. It won’t hurt him. If you really need to shut him up because he’s annoying you, tell him that the more he complains, the longer you’ll keep him locked up.
