Benefits Of Male Chastity
Welcome back to Mistress Sarah’s wonderful world of male chastity – where I take the time to give you the basics of male chastity. Of course, if you are really interested in the lifestyle you should read my book “Beautiful Enslavement,” which covers everything you’ve ever wanted to know about male chastity but your spouse was afraid to ask.
Over the years, the question I’ve gotten the most often from both men and women is, “What are the benefits of male chastity?” After all, it takes a bit of time, effort and expense and you want a return on that investment.
The truth is there are so many benefits it would take pages and pages to go into them all; but I can tell you a bit about the most important ones, so you can make the responsible decision to make male chastity a part of your relationship.
Men: Let’s start with the good stuff – while you will have considerably less orgasms, the ones you do have will be much, much more intense than anything you have ever before experienced. When you ejaculate every day, your penis becomes less sensitive. Plus, you build up a tolerance to the chemicals that are released during orgasm. This means you get less pleasure than you should. If you have enough self-control to become a responsible man and only orgasm every four or five weeks, you’ll get a much better rush – as nature intended. Beyond that, being in chastity will force you to find new ways to please your wife, which means you will become a much better lover. She’ll probably brag to her friends about how wonderful you are in bed! Won’t that be nice? You’ll become much more understanding of her body and her needs, and she will appreciate you and love you for it. Last but not least, you’ll free yourself from the shame of masturbation and no longer feel like a little boy who plays with his cock, but, instead, like a man who makes love to his woman!
Women: I suggest male chastity to any woman I know who is in a serious relationship with a man. There is no downside; and – to be honest – as long as your man is not locked up, your relationship is in jeopardy. Every single day that your man has control of his penis, he is masturbating while thinking about other women. Don’t you think that’s wrong? While he’s free he also has the chance to cheat on you – an option that almost half of all married men take advantage of. Do you really want to risk having a little tramp break up your marriage simply because your husband – like most men – has no self-control? Beyond that, it will make you relationship stronger and more romantic. Remember how he treated you when you were dating? Did you notice that once he “had” you and felt like he could make love to you anytime he wanted that he started being less romantic – and, often, less interested in sex? That’s because men are hard wired to conquer women sexually. If they think they can’t have us, they want us. If they know they can have us, they take us for granted. Therefore, the best way to turn him back into a romantic partner is to make sure that he knows he can’t have you – or any other woman – until you decide he’s earned it. This leads to all sorts of side benefits because you can use the carrot and stick approach of male chastity to get him to do chores around the house, rub your feet, take you out to dinner and buy you nice jewelry. He may never spend time out with the boys that should have been spent with you again!
Couples: The main benefit for any couple in a long-term relationship is that male chastity is simply the right thing to do. He’s made a vow to be faithful to you. As long as he is free, he will either be cheating on you with himself while masturbating – or with other women – or men. Men cannot control themselves and once they have pledged themselves to a woman have no right to sexual freedom. They simply can’t handle it.
