About

Hello!

My name is Mistress Sara and I am a professional dominatrix. I have learned through years of experience that the art of loving female authority and male chastity training is the key to controlling the heart and mind of any man.

Let me tell you a little story…

A very long time ago, I was in a troubled relationship. As is usually the case, the lust and the romance had fizzled and I was left feeling neglected, unsatisfied and bitter. At the time, I had a very close male friend – a “buddy” with whom I could talk freely and I poured my troubles out to him. He was very attentive as he listened to my relationship woes.

“What is wrong with men?” I asked when my rant was nearing it’s end. That is when my friend told me something that I could never in my wildest dreams have imagined – the only reason that men treat women poorly is because we let them! “We wouldn’t do it if you didn’t let us.” were his very “matter-of-fact” and exact words!

To say that I was stunned by his remark would be an understatement. I could not believe what I was hearing but as this friend continued in his conversation with me, another bit of wisdom fell from his mouth…

“If you don’t want to be treated like a doormat – don’t act like one!”

“What an asshole” was the first thing to come to mind but, the more we talked, the more I realized that he was just telling it like it is. Women have been settling for whatever crap men choose to dish out for far too long!

That was the beginning of my journey into the world of female domination and male chastity. Never again, would I settle for less than I truly deserved, nor would I be anyone’s “doormat!”

It is my hope that by browsing this site, you will discover that the women and not the men in relation”ships” hold the power to steer the vessel where they want it to go.

Men are weak creatures with little willpower. They are truly simplistic and ruled by their orgasms. They are like children, they perform much better when they know what their rules and limitations are.

Have you ever seen a child that was given no guidance at all – just left to make their own decisions? They are a mess, running wild, with no real direction. They are selfish, unfocused, unhappy and always looking for the next great thing.

All children are happier and far more well adjusted when they know what is expected of them and what their limits are. They are rewarded by knowing that their parents are proud of their behavior and will work to find new ways to please them.

So is the case with men. Without direction, they will push their boundaries as far as they possibly can, just to see what they can get away with.